I guess in retrospect 2011 only differs from 2010 by one day – Mondays don’t change to Tuesdays and Fridays don’t come on Thursday. I also dare to say that the reason we do the whole new year thing is so that we can give ourselves a reason or the motivation to start from scratch, to try and rebuild where we failed previously and to give ourselves a reason (of hope) to feel that the new year will bring improvement and renewal. Obviously we may well be fooling ourselves because rightfully speaking we are just repeating the same cycle we have been doing all our lives and if you cannot change your attitude right now, today, then the 1st of January 2011 may not be any different. With that being said though, my wish for 2011 is that I change my attitude in various ways and that my focus is on delivering results and when I say this I specifically mean focussing my energy and attention on those that really love and care for me, and forgetting those that don’t. Its simple really, you cannot change people’s opinion of you by trying to be in count with them or by trying to persuade them to think otherwise of you – its just a waste of time and energy. Instead we must focus on building out the relationships we have with friends and family because if you don’t and you continually strive to seek recognition and attention from those that do not want to give it to you, you will end up regretting lost time. Time that could so easily have been better spent with those that tolerate your mistakes and faults – and who still love you. I believe you can achieve this partially by being disciplined in your work and by focussing all your energy on your work. By focussing on your work you achieve total single-mindedness and you tend to not worry much about what people may or may not think. I want to be ruthless next year in terms of the quality and commitment I put into my work – I need and want to be focussed and drive to achieve what only I know I can, and not worry about what others think or say. I also want to focus on building and nurturing relationships with people by being more tolerant and by changing my attitude. Attitude is a priceless commodity.
I see 2011 as a ASP.NET MVC year for me and a Ruby on Rails year, maybe Django and Python too. I am thinking of getting myself a Macbook Pro next year maybe and I might consider an iPhone. Not because I am leaving the .NET world but simply because I need to learn new things.
2011 will be a year where I love technology because work in itself is a place or state of mind where you can find bliss. I also see 2011 as a year where family and friends will be important to me.
Happy new year!